THINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH YOUR LOVE #1

you are probably aware that in many countries of the world the bride and groom don't really know each other before they get married. well, that actually happens in every country. :)
all of you surely know girls and boys, men and women who have been dating for years, then have been shocked to learn what their mate thought about sex, religion, careers, household work, money and the future.
couples could cut down on a lot of their clashes if they know more about their mate’s thoughts, beliefs and emotions. the best way to get to really know someone is with questions. 

i found a great book with a huge amount of questions for couples. some days ago, when i needed to spend some quality time with my husband (not just discuss “the weather and our jobs“), i opened the book and we started to discuss the questions. we were talking more than an hour. it was interesting, it was constructive, it was fun.

these were the questions:

? What things about me remind you of anyone from your past, either past sweethearts or good friends?
? What do you think are my talents? Do you think you have any of the same talents?
? How many physical fights have you been in? Do you usually start them? Why do you fight?
? Has anyone very dear to you died? How did you handle it?
? What are you most fearful of? How does that fear keep you from doing things you would like to do?

i will continue sharing some of the questions here, so you may discuss them with your partner or your friends.

have a great week! :)
xo